Work or Fun ?

Doesn't this picture speak for itself... ?

I am posting this on last day of my weekend! i don't feel like working tomorrow, so i thought of bitching about it here on my blog ;p...

Marriage, is it "Work" ?

For someone who is inexperienced, or has totally different understanding of marriage, has probably asked this question , "what is marriage, is it hard work ?".

i've seen women,specially at their early twenties, suffer after they've got married, thinking that marriage is supposed to be fun and exciting, while it turned out messy and full of arguments!

For both Men and Women, in order for marriage to work, without being bumpy, you must not... : 

Try to make their own parter into someone their not,

Believe they have superior rights, tastes, preferences, beliefs, or mortality,

Are unwilling to be imaginative and see their partner's perspectives alongside their own,

Are convinced that their partners are selfish, mentally ill, or defective,

Are unwilling to admire their partners' strengths and regard their vulnerabilities with compassion and support,

Are unwilling to appreciate the value and meaning their partner's add to their lives.

If you are indeed one of those people, marriage will seem impossible, but if you're not, it will be just about compromising

and for those of you who are not married "yet", all i can say is choose your partner wisely. It's same as when working under a manager, or choosing a particular professor, because lets face it, they can either make your life a simple heaven :) or a living hell  :@ !!

P.S. for those who are married, Hang in there :)

Choose Your path

It's another day at work, you feel pissed, sleepy and BORED !
If you are a woman, you think of quiting your job and becoming a housewife...
If you are a man, you think of quiting your job and do your own business, to be your own boss...
But all these options has down side, no steedy money (salary) for the housewife, higher risk for the businessman and more stress for both.
The solution to this problems is to balance your life , because if you dont, you wouldn't be able to live right, even if you don't work.
You need to have the right attitude.
If you don't like your job, change it.
If you wish to have your own business, start working on it while you're still in your current job.
Life is all about making choices, wouldn't it be nice if you made the right one ! :)

Road to insanity

Does sanity means doing what society wants, so that people won't label you insane ? if so, we know very well every society is different. What's considered normal in our society may be insane to others, and vice-versa. Having said that, do we really need to follow our societies values and beliefs? or do we need the best therapist to help us change the way we THINK? 

People are followers by nature. They are sniffing after society's values. Every human mind has the capability to think beyond the current limits. This twisted mind and unthinking behavior will get us no where but straight to rock bottom. 

People THINK! 

Welcome !

I'm so excited!... it's my first blog EVER!

This blog "sUnnY SIde uP" is how i like my eggs...To be honest, I wanted to create a cool blog name , but i ran of ideas ! You know how it is when you go totally blank ! but THANK GOD! i came up with this name, which i hope you liked :).

Ok back to the chase ... This blog is intended to document my own thoughts. Plus, why not talk about issues, whether its personal, country, region, west, east, world, milky way, whatever it is that needs to be discussed!... We'll see how it goes :) ...

I won't be boring you guys with silly, nonsense, boring kinda stuff, but i'll try to diversify my posts, adding some spices to it to make them exciting a bit! (NO LIES) so don't worry !

Hopefully, i'll try to post every day, so KEEP UP!

and please keep reading my posts and comment to improve this blog !